There are a million ways to be cruel and ignorant in geekdom, and Halloween is a riot for the exclusive boys’ club nerd culture has built.
Cosplay, shorthand for “costume play,” is defined by Wikipedia as a “performance art in which cosplayers wear costume and fashion accessories to represent a specific character or idea that is identified with a unique name.” Think Halloween on the extreme – cosplayers turn the fantasy world into reality.
And who other to rule the fantasy kingdom than the sprawling plains of nerd-dom? There are Batmen and Spidermen, lords and kings of fantastical lands, and antiheroes brought to life by the hundred. The possibilities are endless. And after hours spent slaving over the minutia of your perfect cosplay, you hear from the corner of the comic book store Halloween party: “attention-grabbing slut!”
Let’s visit the most terrorizing of stereotypes: the “horrifying” fake geek girl. Beware! These alleged women knock on your door, trick-or-treating, or arrive at geek events. And while they may be hot, they lack the “geek-cred” to be a “true fan.”
But there is no such thing as a fake geek girl. There are simply are females who like or enjoy something society automatically labels as part of “nerd culture.”
Alienating women in geekdom is nothing new, from both casual fans and even professionals in the industry. Comic writer Tony Harris, known for his work on Starman, Iron Man, and Ex Machina, posted on Facebook: “Hey! Quasi-Pretty-NOT-Hot-Girl, you are more pathetic than the REAL Nerds, who YOU secretly think are REALLY pathetic. But we are onto you.”
Elitists will always make joining a clique, a club, or a subculture competitive and menacing. And the fact that geek culture is, with some exceptions, largely a boy’s club doesn’t make it easier for women to enthusiastically enjoy something different from the mainstream any easier. Without precisely reciting every fact, any female is labeled a poser.
The startling reality is that Halloween isn’t just the one time of year women are shamed in geekdom. Around the world, females are too intimidated by the nerd-cred-shaming male nerd population of geekdom to feel comfortable expressing the slightest interest in things that generically fall under the “nerd” category.
It’s expected of women to be subservient to the males in nerd society. If they dare submerge themselves into the universe, only then can they redeem themselves by becoming that archetypal, subservient-to-her-male-super-colleagues character. And even then, she is still not given the basic respect of being recognized as a member of the fandom.
But the fandom isn’t the only realm this virus affects. As geekdom floods into the mainstream, as superhero movies maintain number one in the box office for weeks, this “boys only” territory spreads everywhere. As young girls grow up watching Princess Leia being raped by Jabba the Hutt and dismiss it as a bump in the plot line, the anti-feminist side of geekery will not only cause some serious damage, but set a standard of shaming women for the years to come.
When you boil it down, women’s worth in geekery is not their contributions to the subculture or even their extensive passion. The community of lady nerds is growing. And ladies? Forget about the haters. Let your geek flag fly proudly this Halloween.
Kaity Gee is a high school junior at The Harker School in San Jose. She is currently multimedia editor of her school paper, The Winged Post. Kaity has won multiple awards for her journalistic works, including CSPA’s Gold Circle award for Broadcast and Graphic Design; Honorable Mention and 2nd place nationally, respectively. She has also been awarded 2nd place in the National Federation of Press Women’s prestigious Feature Category for her piece on eating disorders.